It’s commonly said that folks in painful, isolated or lonely situations struggle mightily during the holidays. While it’s certainly true for many, it’s not universal. There are many that pull things together, engage in family rituals, see family members on a once a year visit; and get it together for a while, actually feeling positive. For the latter it’s after the holidays when things get really tough. Celebrations are over, dark and gloomy weather rules the day, credit card bills come due and there’s little to look forward to, especially if you’re not a football fan. If you or someone you know is in the first group, by all means take advantage of Church based holiday support programs. If you’re in the second group, enjoy the holidays but please don’t hesitate to admit when things hit that you’re struggling. Talk to your Pastor, a counselor, join a support or recovery group. No shame in it, only hope and help.