Helping Kids Deal with Emotions
Many families ignore emotions or view them as a nuisance. But emotions affect children more than they realize. One of the keys to helping children understand emotions is to teach them the difference between the feeling and the response. It’s okay to feel sad, but that doesn’t justify treating people unkindly.
When Joel was thirteen, his dog, Skippy, died. Joel had raised Skippy from a puppy. They played together, slept together, and Joel had taken care of Skippy when he was sick. Now his beloved friend was gone. Joel’s heart was broken. The pain was intense. He spent the next few days bouncing between lashing out at those around him and withdrawing into himself. His heart was working hard to absorb this unwanted new experience: life without his loyal friend.
Mom was patient with Joel, giving him space to grieve and work things out. She initiated conversation with him often and looked for ways to comfort him. Sometimes Joel used his sadness as an excuse for being unkind or disrespectful, but Mom made it clear that grieving was okay; meanness was not. Over time, Joel adjusted to life without Skippy. Mom’s approach was successful because she considered Joel’s heart during that time.
Romans 12:15 tells us to “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Emotions are a part of life. Children often need help recognizing and dealing with their emotions. They haven’t learned yet how to process all the feelings their hearts experience.
Teaching children about their emotions and the appropriate ways to deal with them will prepare kids for experiencing even deeper joys and sadness in the future. Helping children separate what they feel from how they treat you and others is an important part of that process.
Helping Kids Deal with Emotions
Many families ignore emotions or view them as a nuisance. But emotions affect children more than they realize. One of the keys to helping children understand emotions is to teach them the difference between the feeling and the response. It’s okay to feel sad, but that doesn’t justify treating people unkindly.
When Joel was thirteen, his dog, Skippy, died. Joel had raised Skippy from a puppy. They played together, slept together, and Joel had taken care of Skippy when he was sick. Now his beloved friend was gone. Joel’s heart was broken. The pain was intense. He spent the next few days bouncing between lashing out at those around him and withdrawing into himself. His heart was working hard to absorb this unwanted new experience: life without his loyal friend.
Mom was patient with Joel, giving him space to grieve and work things out. She initiated conversation with him often and looked for ways to comfort him. Sometimes Joel used his sadness as an excuse for being unkind or disrespectful, but Mom made it clear that grieving was okay; meanness was not. Over time, Joel adjusted to life without Skippy. Mom’s approach was successful because she considered Joel’s heart during that time.
Romans 12:15 tells us to “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Emotions are a part of life. Children often need help recognizing and dealing with their emotions. They haven’t learned yet how to process all the feelings their hearts experience.
Teaching children about their emotions and the appropriate ways to deal with them will prepare kids for experiencing even deeper joys and sadness in the future. Helping children separate what they feel from how they treat you and others is an important part of that process.
Times are difficult right now and if you feel like you are struggling with your finances, you are definitely not alone. We want to help you get on track with your finances in this biblically based financial class! This class will help you manage your finances with Christ as the center. This is a five-week study starting Thursday, February 16, from 6:30-8 p.m. in Room 1208. There will be a “make-up” session on Sunday, February 19, from 11:30 a.m. – 1 p.m. in Room 1208. The cost of the class is $10.00. Childcare will be $5.00 per child per class. Experience financial well being and security through God’s plan for your life and finances. The Bible is packed with wise counsel about your financial life. Join us as we answer critical questions about how to stay afloat and make sound financial decisions during these challenging times. To sign up, please contact Jillian or call 831.655.0100, x336.
Times are difficult right now and if you feel like you are struggling with your finances, you are definitely not alone. We want to help you get on track with your finances in this biblically based financial class! This class will help you manage your finances with Christ as the center. This is a five-week study starting Thursday, February 16, from 6:30-8 p.m. in Room 1208. There will be a “make-up” session on Sunday, February 19, from 11:30 a.m. – 1 p.m. in Room 1208. The cost of the class is $10.00. Childcare will be $5.00 per child per class. Experience financial well being and security through God’s plan for your life and finances. The Bible is packed with wise counsel about your financial life. Join us as we answer critical questions about how to stay afloat and make sound financial decisions during these challenging times. To sign up, please contact Jillian or call 831.655.0100, x336.
This week we have wrapped up our focus on Grace-getting something great that you don’t deserve. We have taught our first – fifth graders in The Cove that God shows us grace, focusing on the rescuer, Jesus, and that His love for us is unimaginable and unconditional.
Download the family fun God Time here to find out about the lost son. There is helpful material to start up a discussion on what they learned this week.
This week we have wrapped up our focus on Grace-getting something great that you don’t deserve. We have taught our first – fifth graders in The Cove that God shows us grace, focusing on the rescuer, Jesus, and that His love for us is unimaginable and unconditional.
Download the family fun God Time here to find out about the lost son. There is helpful material to start up a discussion on what they learned this week.
Exploring the Prophets Bible Study | September 19th
Join us this coming Fall for Pastor Kevin’s monthly Bible Study on the prophets. We will meet in the Fellowship Center from 6:30-7:30 p.m. for the study. Afterward, there will be an optional Q&A time from 7:30-8 p.m. September’s topic we’ll be study the prophets Zephaniah and Habakkuk. Hope you can join us!
Exploring the Prophets Bible Study | September 19th
Join us this coming Fall for Pastor Kevin’s monthly Bible Study on the prophets. We will meet in the Fellowship Center from 6:30-7:30 p.m. for the study. Afterward, there will be an optional Q&A time from 7:30-8 p.m. September’s topic we’ll be study the prophets Zephaniah and Habakkuk. Hope you can join us!
Reading for the Week of August 27 – September 3
Day 1- Matthew 4
Day 2- Matthew 26
Day 3- John 21
Day 4- Acts 1-2
Day 5- Acts 3-4
Day 6- Acts 10-11
Bonus- Acts 12
Memorize/Reflect - Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.” (John 21:16)
Personal Reflection- Peter walked closely with Jesus, loved Him, and was deeply committed to following Him. Why would he deny Jesus and bail out on Him when things got tough? How have you been like Peter and wavered between devotion and denial?
Discussion- What are some of the pressure situations Christians face that tempt us to act like we don’t know Jesus? How do you think Jesus feels when His children deny Him in action or attitude?
Prayer Direction- Thank Jesus for calling you to be His follower and friend. Thank Him, even though you fail or deny Him, He still loves you. Pray for power to stay devoted to Jesus no matter what you face.
“Live It!” Challenge - Identify one situation you face in life that tempts you to compromise on your faith. Make a plan for how you can stand strong and honor Jesus the next time you face this situation.
Monthly Prayer Focus:Through September we will focus our prayers on Shoreline Ministries. Take time this week to pray for our children’s ministry. Lift up Pastor Roy and all of our children’s volunteers. Pray that kids will grow to know and love Jesus. Ask God to rise up all the volunteers we need to do the children’s ministry with excellence.
Resources for this week: As we conclude our Road Trip with Jesus, you might want to join us in reading the gospels. If you don’t have your own Bible, visit the Shoreline Bookstore, or talk with one of our pastors. If you don’t know the sweeping and epic story of the Bible, consider reading The Story. There are copies available in the Bookstore. Also, consider joining us for The Big Picture of the Bible class led by pastors Kevin and Dennis on September 17th, 9-3pm.
Small Groups Discussion Questions (Summer Road Trip with Jesus – Week 9)
Reading for the Week of August 27 – September 3
Day 1- Matthew 4
Day 2- Matthew 26
Day 3- John 21
Day 4- Acts 1-2
Day 5- Acts 3-4
Day 6- Acts 10-11
Bonus- Acts 12
Memorize/Reflect - Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.” (John 21:16)
Personal Reflection- Peter walked closely with Jesus, loved Him, and was deeply committed to following Him. Why would he deny Jesus and bail out on Him when things got tough? How have you been like Peter and wavered between devotion and denial?
Discussion- What are some of the pressure situations Christians face that tempt us to act like we don’t know Jesus? How do you think Jesus feels when His children deny Him in action or attitude?
Prayer Direction- Thank Jesus for calling you to be His follower and friend. Thank Him, even though you fail or deny Him, He still loves you. Pray for power to stay devoted to Jesus no matter what you face.
“Live It!” Challenge - Identify one situation you face in life that tempts you to compromise on your faith. Make a plan for how you can stand strong and honor Jesus the next time you face this situation.
Monthly Prayer Focus:Through September we will focus our prayers on Shoreline Ministries. Take time this week to pray for our children’s ministry. Lift up Pastor Roy and all of our children’s volunteers. Pray that kids will grow to know and love Jesus. Ask God to rise up all the volunteers we need to do the children’s ministry with excellence.
Resources for this week: As we conclude our Road Trip with Jesus, you might want to join us in reading the gospels. If you don’t have your own Bible, visit the Shoreline Bookstore, or talk with one of our pastors. If you don’t know the sweeping and epic story of the Bible, consider reading The Story. There are copies available in the Bookstore. Also, consider joining us for The Big Picture of the Bible class led by pastors Kevin and Dennis on September 17th, 9-3pm.
Small Groups Discussion Questions (Summer Road Trip with Jesus – Week 9)
